Sunday, January 30, 2011

The Art Of French Dressing - article from smh by Natasha Silva-Jelly


No - this is not an article on how to make French dressing for salads.  Perhaps the title of this article should be "The Art Of Dressing - French-style".  But all that aside, I whole-heartedly agree with the ten tips that were offered for dressing 'French-style'.  They're listed below and as Chantal Blanchet, owner of Chantal B fashion store in Sydney says ..  "Consider yourself a work of art. The secret to exuding the charm and confidence of the French women is attitude; the clothes are just there to help." 
Top Ten Tips for Dressing French-Style
1. Dress well every day and buy one or two key items of the best quality you can afford each season. Go for classics such as a tailored jacket, a Breton boat-neck navy-and-white striped T-shirt, a classic shift, shirt dress or linen trousers.
2. Mix affordable fashion trends with investment pieces - a casual T-shirt with a classic trench is effortlessly French.
3. Invest in a few signature pieces of jewellery, such as a string of pearls or earrings, an oversized bangle or a cuff, to give your outfit a French edge.
4. Buy quality shoes; French women never wear cheap shoes. Every French wardrobe requires classic ballet flats.
5. Wear a beautiful (silk) scarf all year to make like a Parisian. Or tie one on your handbag.
6. Adopt a sense of dress-ups. French women are not afraid to be daring with clashing colours, accessories and vintage pieces (a la Vanessa Paradis pictured).
7. Embrace your age: French women see growing older as a privilege that means you can dress as you like.
8. Wear beautiful, comfortable underwear, always. French, naturally.
9. Organise your wardrobe efficiently and take photographs of different outfits that can be mixed and matched.
10. Good grooming is essential. Style your hair (try a Tautou up-do), always wear lipstick and take Coco Chanel's lead and never leave the house without fragrance.
Well stated Chantal..bravo!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Do Affirmations Really Work?

Today I received the Pow Wow e-newsletter and before I sent it to trash-heaven, something caught my eye.  An article by Noah St. John. It was about Affirmations: The Secret Key to Manifestations in 2011.
Affirmations had never worked for me - not sure about you but that article got my curiosity going.
Well - expecting to read the 'same old...' again - I was quite surprised that Noah had a 4-Step method to affirmations and it was an interesting approach.
I've attached the article here on the right column under 'Pages' and would love to  hear about your experience with affirmations to date and your thoughts about this 4 Step process.



Thursday, January 20, 2011

Top 20 Trends in 2011 Forecast - The 2011 Trend Report

We are becoming addicts - all of us.  And I'm not talking about drugs, nicotine or alcohol.  No, I'm talking about CHANGE.  We are always looking for the next best thing.   Check this out to see what the next best things will be in 2011. What are your thoughts on this?



Monday, January 17, 2011

Who's responsible for the lack of Civility in today's world?

I hear it often enough - "What happened to good manners?"  "People are so angry!"  "Why are people so impatient these days?"  Generally speaking, civility appears to have been lost and we need to get it back. This is what Baby Boomers have to say...

"We take responsibility for all we have done and do not blame others.  However we would like to point out that it was NOT the generation who took:
 - the melody out of music
 - the pride out of appearance
 - the courtesy out of driving

 - the romance out of love
 - the commitment out of marriage
 - the responsibility out of parenthood 
 - the togetherness out of the family
 - the learning out of education
 - the service out of patriotism

 - the Golden Rule from rulers
 - the nativity scene out of cities
 - the civility out of behaviour
 - the refinement out of language
 - the dedication out of employment
 - the prudence out of spending and,
 - the ambition out of achievement.
And we certainly are NOT the ones who eliminated patience and tolerance from personal relationships and interactions with others!



So there you have it from Baby Boomers of which I am one.
What are your thoughts?



Friday, January 14, 2011

What I'm up to...

Hi everyone
I appear to be a tad lax over this last week or two. Currently rewriting our new Style Portfolios which is taking up more than a fair chunk of my time.  Our new personal colour profiles are stunning, however the they make our Style Books look like they need an update.  Have you ever noticed that you paint one wall, the rest start to look like they need a touch up too?   Or when you buy a new outfit - it makes some of your other outfits look very past their wear-by-date. At least it's easy to toss them when you have something to gauge them by.


Now there's a strategy.  If you know it's time to sort your wardrobe out and find it hard to start, or difficult to decide what to toss - go buy a new outfit. It's sure to motivate you to clear out the much loved but too well worn. Reward yourself first, and hey presto!  Wardrobe audit done in no time at all.  Who knows, you might just feel like rewarding yourself again. :-)

Sunday, January 02, 2011

WHAT IS YOUR AROMA PERSONA?

I’ve been asked many times about how one goes about choosing the right perfume.  Even though I have favorites that work for me, I don’t profess to be an expert on perfumes.  I know what I like and what I don’t like. I also know that even if I may like a perfume on someone else, quite it often it doesn't work well for me.

Just before Christmas some years ago now, I was entering David Jones Elizabeth Street store in Sydney and was met with the overpowering reek of some new perfume that was being launched. It made me sick to my stomach. Too late – I’d been sprayed with the stuff by an over-zealous attendant with a sample bottle of the heady scent with a smile larger than life. It was Dior’s Poison and for me it was unbearable. I couldn’t wait to get out of the store. I'm sure you have had occasions where a particular perfume was nauseating for you. So what is the key to perfume selection to ensure that you don't waste your money on something you can't bear to wear?

So I browsed the internet and it's just as I thought...sorry, but it’s a bit of hit and miss I'm afraid and you have to put some effort to find your ideal perfumes. 

Things to consider before buying a perfume
§      1. Think about your preference for a particular ‘family’ of perfumes e.g. Floral, Woody, Oriental, Fruity. Only you can decide what your preference is.
2. When do you want to wear it? Is it office, evening, daytime casual, special occasion...?
3. What concentration level do you prefer? Perfume, Eau de Parfum, Eau de Toilette, Cologne?Again this relates to the occasion, and your personality. I love the FAQ web page on the Which Perfume website. Check it out (and ignore the spelling errors).
http://sites.google.com/site/whichperfume/perfumefaqs 
I found the last two questions were interesting in that they addressed perfume categories and the ‘personality’ of the fragrance families.
I also loved the descriptions given to Joe Malone of London’s perfumes.
It gets you thinking about the various families and each perfume’s story.

Perfume families

Floral fragrances are the most traditional, and also most popular family. They range from a linear scent of one flower (Yardley’s English Rose) – to a veritable bouquet of flowers (Guerlain’s Champs-Elysees).  The floral family is feminine, romantic, and suitable for any age. Nice for romantic evenings under starry nights. Sigh.  Does this sound like you?
Oriental scents are strong, often spicy, with musk and vanilla tones, warming and exotic and are created from a blend of spices, resins, and other exotic aromas. Think winter evenings by the fire. Personalities think Paloma Picasso and Salma Hayek. Also personal colouring e.g. olive skin, dark hair, dramatic appearance, strong physical features etc.  Someone who has delicate features and fair colouring would find the heavy oriental fragrances too overpowering.  Example: Guerlain's Mitsouko
Fruity fragrances are fresh, youthful and most popular in summer. They contain citrus fruits like lime, tangerine, and lemon creating refreshing aromas. These can be worn during the day for most people, perhaps evening for people with fairer complexions. I think more feminine personalities would enjoy the lightness of these fragrances. A light splash of eau de toilet in this perfume family would be refreshing and very appropriate for those engaged in active sports and gym workouts etc.
Examples: Yardley’s Strawberry and Kiwi (sweet) or DKNY (fresh, citrus).
Woody scents are earthy, sophisticated and perhaps a bit more masculine. Definitely an acquired taste. This is my favourite perfume family. Perfect for my skin and personality. Florals are much too flowery for me. I’d never wear a flowery print either – interesting.
They range from smoky to mossy and include scents such as patchouli, pine and sandalwood. Example:  Miss Dior
Green fragrances are fresh and neutral and use notes such as pine, grass, fresh leaves and herbs – these are too ‘green’ and herbal for me, even though I can grow things in the garden ha ha!  Are you a sporty individual, natural and unfussy?  If so, you might enjoy this fragrance family.  E.g. Elizabeth Arden’s Fifth Avenue.

The Concentration Levels of fragrances - from Perfume to Cologne.
Pure perfume is the very concentrated and also most expensive. It will stay on your body for long period of time. Use sparingly because of it’s high level of aromatic formulation and cost. Not appropriate for the office.
Eau de Parfum is one of the best sellers, still stays on longer than the weaker varieties, yet less expensive than perfume.
Eau de Toilette is a lighter scent, doesn’t stay on long so needs reapplying occasionally. Ideal for the office.
Cologne has the least concentration of it’s aromatic ingredients – between 2% to 5%.  As a light fragrance, it is suggested for wear in the office. But wearing lighter perfume requires more frequent application in the summer months. Evening wear colognes are mostly Oriental to enhance a warm and exotic mood.

Finding Your Signature Perfume
Part of your unique style could include a signature fragrance you wear most of the time. When you build a strong connection to a favourite perfume, it becomes part of you so that each time someone smells that fragrance it brings to mind YOU!
So many to choose from. It can be confusing to find a signature fragrance you love that suits your skin and personality, so be prepared to try sampling many to find the ‘just-right’ fragrances for you.  Most often, people discover their right fragrance quite by accident – an impulsive sniff while shopping, a magazine sample sachet, or someone’s perfume wafting over you (you’ve got to be prepared to ask them what perfume they are wearing though).

When you find one you like, spray it on a pulse point or inside your elbow then check it again in an hour or so to see if you still like it. If you still do, then buy the smallest size available until you're sure it's a scent you want to wear for a while or longer. You don’t want to buy an expensive bottle of perfume only to find it gives you a headache, or starts to smell like cat-pee after several hours.
Tip: Don't test too many perfumes in one day or you'll be overwhelmed by it all and won’t be able to distinguish one scent from another. It’s suggested that smelling ground coffee beans between sniff tests will clear your nose so you don't confuse scents.  Hmmm I know I love the smell of coffee beans even if I’m not sure about the perfumes.
In Tune With Perfume
We talk about music scores made up of ‘notes’. Did you know that perfumes are also made of a variety of ‘notes’ that come together to create that special blend we call perfume?
That’s why the perfume you wear gives out a different aroma at different times after you apply it. The smell you get on application is quite different to what you get after about 30 minutes have passed. Then it can change even more during the day. The perfume starts to evaporate and the "different notes" start to come out.
Top notes – these are what you get when you first open the bottle and stay with you for the first 5 - 30 minutes.
Middle (or heart) notes - can be smelt after 10 - 30 minutes. These notes are what balance the various blends of the perfume.  Interesting isn’t it?
Base notes -  these are the most dominant part of the perfume. These notes hold the fragrances together, last the longest and slow down the evaporation of the Top and Middle notes.
A Little On Perfume Etiquette
1. Don't spray perfume in public. Use very little or none at all if you’re going to be in a closed room meeting or working next to someone.
2. Avoid heavy scents at the office.  For a lasting effect without overpowering is to layer your fragrance by using the same scent through your bathing process: scented bubble bath, body cream, dusting powder, deodorant and finally a very light spray of cologne. Never finish with a heavy perfume when layering. 
3. Some fragrances come in perfume form, which is the strongest scent; Eau de Toilette is lighter; and cologne spray, the lightest of all. Go lighter in the day than at night. Before dousing yourself with perfume, think of people around you. You don’t want them choking for air.


My favourite perfumes
Chanel No. 5  Chanel No 19   Chanel – Allure     Chanel - Coco    Dior – Dune   White Linen - Estee Lauder    L’air du Temps – Nina Ricci
Did you know...?  The most expensive perfume in the world as listed in The Guinness Book of Records is Clive Christian No. 1
Best place to buy your Brand perfumes and skincare at terrific discounts is at www.strawberrynet.com
And finally - do you have a favourite perfume?  Share it here by adding a comment below.  Your recommendation could help someone discover a new favourite for themselves.